The age old question. How do you keep yourself in that same friendship when SO MUCH has changed it your life? I mean, have YOU really changed?
Sure, you have added stresses, less sleep, and bigger things to worry about than if you get a nap in before you meet your bestie at the bar... But really, are we not capable of being the same kind of friends we were, prior to kids?
I guess it would depend on if we both had kids. If one does and one doesn't, then I suppose there would be some noteable differences in the day to day. But then when one friend catches up with the other and pops out a kid, I believe that the playing field is even- don't you? Whether or not one friend has a Duggar-sized family and you have an only child, no difference...
When did you stop relating to each other? When did you stop noticing anything (or everything) about the other?
It's a sucky feeling.
And mad props to you besties who haven't given up!
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